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Read 1 Samuel 14:6-15
6  And Jonathan said to the young man that bare his armour, Come, and let us go over unto the garrison of these uncircumcised: it may be that the LORD will work for us: for there is no restraint to the LORD to save by many or by few.
7  And his armourbearer said unto him, Do all that is in thine heart: turn thee; behold, I am with thee according to thy heart.
8  Then said Jonathan, Behold, we will pass over unto these men, and we will discover ourselves unto them.
9  If they say thus unto us, Tarry until we come to you; then we will stand still in our place, and will not go up unto them.
10  But if they say thus, Come up unto us; then we will go up: for the LORD hath delivered them into our hand: and this shall be a sign unto us.
11  And both of them discovered themselves unto the garrison of the Philistines: and the Philistines said, Behold, the Hebrews come forth out of the holes where they had hid themselves.
12  And the men of the garrison answered Jonathan and his armourbearer, and said, Come up to us, and we will shew you a thing. And Jonathan said unto his armourbearer, Come up after me: for the LORD hath delivered them into the hand of Israel.
13  And Jonathan climbed up upon his hands and upon his feet, and his armourbearer after him: and they fell before Jonathan; and his armourbearer slew after him.
14  And that first slaughter, which Jonathan and his armourbearer made, was about twenty men, within as it were an half acre of land, which a yoke of oxen might plow.
15  And there was trembling in the host, in the field, and among all the people: the garrison, and the spoilers, they also trembled, and the earth quaked: so it was a very great trembling.

As we read about Jonathan’s plan it seems a bit strange and even foolish.  Or as my DH says, “There is a fine line between faith a foolishness, watch for it.”
If we equate Jonathan with our husband and ourselves with the armourbearer and whatever it is our husband has determined is God’s road or current load for our family with the Philistines, can we see a course of action we as wives should follow?
Does the Bible say that the armourbearer rolled his eyes, heaved great and mighty sighs, questioned every step and every word, or discussed the plan and lack of strategy with his parents?  No, He simply said, “Do all that is in thine heart: turn thee; behold, I am with thee according to thy heart.” and followed him up that hill ready to tackle the job shoulder to shoulder.

How’s your attitude in regard to your husband’s leadership?  Is it time for an attitude adjustment?

Bless your husband today with an armourbearers attitude and unquestioning submission to his leadership.